It's been many months that I'm personally interviewing and filtering Singles who submit Expression of Interest in our Conscious Matchmaking Service.
Why? For this reason...
During these interviews, I hear stories that can create a superhit web series!
Here is a small trailer of that...
I have come across many people who had 100% Astrology (Kundali) approved match and yet they experienced a cat-and-dog fight in court for divorce.
These cases involved domestic violence, physical abuse and mental harassment of both genders from each other. In some cases women were the victims and in others, men were the victims.
I'm a Numerologist also. I've been practicing it for 30 years. So, I believe in Astrology and all.
But I'm a Relationship Coach also and I can tell you with certainty that marriages break because of Psychological-incompatibilities and nobody pays attention to this fact. But we do.
I came across a case in which a man was kidnapped by his in-laws because he found out that his wife was cheating on him and he wanted to file divorce. He was kidnapped, tortured and threatened to not disclose this reason. Instead, his wife filed the divorce saying he was cheating on her and he was threatened to go with that otherwise...
I came across a case in which the guy went to visit the woman (potential match found from one of the most popular matrimony sites) and her family (which included an 8 year old child also as the woman was a single parent). He did the engagement there and spent a few lacs.
One day he decided to visit them unannounced to surprise them and instead he got a shock of his life. There was nobody at home. Upon enquiring in the neighborhood, he realised that the entire family was made up as part of an elaborate scam (including the child).
I came across a case in which the wife was kept like a sex slave who underwent 18 abortions!
I came across many people who reported that when they find someone worth talking from Dating/Matrimonial sites, the person is pursuing multiple options in-parallel. There is nobody to moderate this. Often such people disappear midway without any notice or clarification and stop responding to messages leaving the other person clueless as to what happened!
Almost everyone appreciated the fact that I call them personally to evaluate their situation. None of the popular dating/matrimonial sites do this. Nobody ever cared to find out who they are and what they are looking for. The only time they get a call from "Customer Service" is to remind them that their membership is finishing and they need to renew to continue.
So, is there any hope to find a good match?
People spend lacs on their wedding.
People spend lacs on their divorce.
But when it comes to spending a few thousand in taking professional help to find a Right Match, they feel uncomfortable.
See, the fact is, nobody who does matchmaking seriously is going to do it for free.
And why shouldn't they charge fees?
It's their source of income; their bread and butter.
Nobody should be ashamed to expect salary for the work they do, isn't it?
Would you work for someone without salary?
So, if you...
have experienced a toxic relationship
have experienced a dysfunctional and broken marriage
were stuck with an incompatible person
don't have the time and energy to engage in the circus of dating/matrimony sites
want professionals to stand by your side as you go through the process of finding matches again
Then you must value and honor the time and energy they are putting on your behalf for this.
Otherwise there is no way to break this cycle and it is only a matter of time when you will experience a horrific incident of your own.
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